FAQ: Wedding on a Holiday Weekend?

Having a wedding on a holiday weekend can be a tricky thing. Here are a few things to think about when deciding on your wedding date.

Know Your Guests: I know you are probably thinking "I'm inviting these people to my wedding, of course I know them!" Well there are two points to consider here: First, if you know particular guests always have important get togethers or family trips over certain weekends they may not appreciate being invited to a wedding that same weekend. Second, if the majority of your guests and bridal party are local to the venue, pick a different date. If no one has to travel for the event, there is no reason to take up a holiday weekend.

Venue/Destination: If you are going to have your wedding over a holiday weekend, consider having it at a destination that your guests will be able to enjoy as a vacation. Most people have limited time during the year for travel and if able to combine a family vacation with attending your wedding, it's a win/win for them. Check with the venue or with the local chamber of commerce to give your guests a list of local activities for them to enjoy.

Which Holiday: If you are looking at using a holiday weekend most likely it is a summer holiday, Memorial Day or Labor Day are the most popular. These long summer weekends make it easier on guests if they are using the trip as a family vacation as well. Thanksgiving and Christmas are the biggest holidays to avoid, in my opinion. These holidays are of a more intimate nature and are reserved for family and close friend get togethers.

Of course, you can never accommodate everyone but taking the majority of your guests plans into account can really go a long way. My number one philosophy when planning events is to remember the guests. They are going out of their way to come and celebrate with you so in turn you should go out of your way to make them comfortable.


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